this morning

so this morning started off a little rough, when the girls got up I wasn't ready for it, fortunately my wife took care of everything and even took them out of the room when it seemed like they weren't going to calm down at all and daddy got an extra hour of sleep. Well Karly's been teething so it's been rough on her and all she seems to want is mommy lately, when she doesn't get what she wants, or mommy's taking care of her other baby, karly screams and yells at the top of her lungs and nothing will comfort her, this morning it started to get to me, her scream is ear ringing so listening to that since I woke up set me a little on edge. My wife started out trying farina this morning, why? I don't know, I just know she did and it was too hot for them to eat initially. Karly seemed to like it but Katie either didn't like it or it was too hot for her, from my experience, she makes the face she made when something is too hot for her, I've given her vegetables that were too hot and that's what I saw then and what I thought I saw now. So I said, probably in a voice too roughly that maybe it was too hot, big mistake, I got attitude for it and told, "if you want to feed her, then go ahead". I was having problem feeding my own baby and from my touch test on her food, it felt hot to me, but what do I know, I'm clueless. Anyway, frustrated with karly's yelling, and my wife's answer I reacted badly and made a mess of breakfast. I pulled a spoon away from karly, too hard and I should know better, I gave her the spoon because when I took it away she screamed more and when she dropped the spoon, I tossed the bowl towards her because it's obvious that's what she wanted and it would keep her quiet...mistake #2 on my part. and then the comment was made that is going to annoy me and bother me the rest of the day was made, "don't you have to go to work?......and "she wasn't screaming like this before you woke up." WTF? She's been screaming like this for the better part of 4 months, especially during meals I've noticed but all of a sudden, it's all my fault??????????? "She knows youre upset and that's why she is crying/acting like this" she's been crying and acting like this since that first tooth came in, but I guess somehow it's all my fault. I do take responsibility for my actions this morning, I should have just let then roll off my back and get on with my day, I didn't and now I don't know how the rest of the day is going to go. Should be interesting